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The Compass That Guides Your Life is Pointing You Toward Misery | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services

The Compass That Guides Your Life is Pointing You Toward Misery

How do you know if your life is on the right path? How do you know if you’re headed toward happiness or hardship? You use your emotional compass. And I’m betting yours is not pointing north. Instead, it’s pointing toward misery…and that’s exactly why you keep ending up miserable. Let’s dive deep into this topic and I’ll tell you what happened to your emotional compass and how to get it pointed in a healthier direction.

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Why You Feel Anxious When Someone Asks What You Did This Weekend | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services

Why You Feel Anxious When Someone Asks What You Did This Weekend

 “What’d you do this weekend?”

That’s what your coworkers innocently ask you every Monday morning.  They’re just making conversation, of course, but do you feel a pang of anxiety when you’re asked that question?  Do you feel a need to justify your weekend? To prove that you spent it in a worthwhile way?  

 

In today’s post, I’ll tell you exactly why you feel anxious and uncomfortable when you’re asked that question.  In a nutshell: You’re not a worthwhile person. (ok actually it might be more complicated than that…) Check out the article.

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How to Break Bad Habits That Perpetuate Your Stress & AnxietyHow to Build Happiness Habits | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services

How to Break Bad Habits That Perpetuate Your Stress & Anxiety

Last week, I shared with you a simple strategy for building good habits.  Not only will this reverse and prevent lifestyle burnout, but it’s also a powerful approach for creating that elusive work-life balance everyone’s always preaching about.  And it actually can lead to happiness.  

 

But finding happiness isn’t just about doing more of the good stuff.  It’s also about doing less of the bad stuff. So I’m here today to share with you how to break bad habits.  Again, credit to James Clear (and this podcast) for distilling it into four easy-to-understand criteria.  

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How to Build Happiness Habits | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services

How to Build Happiness Habits

Technology has automated so many of our routine processes (like when was the last time you used a washboard???), but somehow we feel busier, less satisfied, and more anxious than ever. Our futures are determined by the habits we build. Most of us know the habits we need to build and the ones we need to ditch, but we just can’t figure out how to make it a reality. Today, I’m here to teach you a simple strategy for building good happiness habits. Not only will this reverse and prevent lifestyle burnout, but it’s also a powerful approach for creating that elusive work-life balance everyone’s always preaching about. Grab the downloadable PDF to work through the steps to build your own healthy happiness habits.

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14 - 2019.11.24 3 Things That Told Me It Was Time to Resign from My Job | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services

3 Things That Told Me It Was Time to Resign from My Job

Recently, I’ve been writing to you about burnout.  We talked about this concept I invented called “lifestyle burnout” and I gave you 44 signs you might be experiencing lifestyle burnout.  I also told you 3 things I personally use to combat lifestyle burnout.  

 

Over the past year, I was quickly on my way to burnout, and I identified my job as the culprit. This isn’t unusual — burnout is very commonly associated with our jobs.  Today, I’m unveiling three things that told me it was time to resign from my job. Check out the article to see if you can relate and maybe it’s time for a change.  

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2019.09.29 So You're Burning Out. 7 Ways to Fix It Now | Hayden Finch, PhD | Paradocs Psychological Services

So You’re Burning Out. 7 Ways to Fix It Now.

Recently, we’ve been chatting about lifestyle burnout, which is a term I invented to describe the emotional exhaustion we feel with these overscheduled, ultra-competitive lifestyles we’ve developed. I shared with you signs you might be experiencing lifestyle burnout and told you three things I do to avoid lifestyle burnout personally. This week, 7 ways you can start fixing burnout now. Because burnout is different from stress, it’s not as simple as just managing stress well.

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How I Avoid Lifestyle Burnout with 3 Unregrettable Things | Paradocs Psychological Services | Hayden Finch, PhD

How I Avoid Lifestyle Burnout with 3 Unregrettable Things

Recently, I’ve been writing to you about burnout.  We talked about this concept I invented called “lifestyle burnout” and last week I gave you 44 indicators you might be experiencing lifestyle burnout.  Today, I’m sharing with you how I personally avoid lifestyle burnout…with 3 unregrettable things. And I put together a PDF of things people tend to regret in life so you can figure out what your regrets might be and then focus on replacing them with your own unregrettable things.

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Schizophrenia: 3-Hour Course

Schizophrenia: Understanding & Treating Schizophrenia: Understanding & Treating is a 3-hour online continuing education (CE) course that provides clinicians with practical guidance in understanding and treating schizophrenia. Schizophrenia is a complex condition that is poorly understood by the general public and by many mental health clinicians, who receive little training on the condition. It’s important to

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44 Signs You're Experiencing Lifestyle Burnout | Paradocs Psychological Services | Hayden Finch, PhD

44 Signs You’re Experiencing Lifestyle Burnout

Last week, I described to you a concept I invented called “lifestyle burnout.”  It’s similar to the burnout we hear about when it comes to work…except it’s much broader….which makes it more debilitating.  We’re overwhelmed and burnt out, not just on work but on our entire, relentless lives.  

 

Today, I’m bringing you 44 signs you are experiencing lifestyle burnout so you’ll know if this applies to you and you oughta keep paying attention to my articles coming up.  

 

I also put together a PDF chart to show you the difference between stress and burnout, so make sure you grab that while you’re reading the article.  

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Workplace Burnout is Becoming Lifestyle Burnout | Paradocs Psychological Services | Hayden Finch, PhD

Workplace Burnout Is Becoming Lifestyle Burnout

To celebrate Self Improvement Month (which was last month, by the way…kinda missed it 😬), I wrote a few posts on burnout because I’ve been noticing my clients really struggling with burnout, and it’s been a focus of their self-improvement projects.  

 

To start, I wrote an article about how workplace burnout is oozing into my clients’ entire lives and creating a phenomenon I’m calling “lifestyle burnout.”  

 

Check it out to discover more about what “lifestyle burnout” is.  

Then grab the PDF to figure out what might be contributing to your lifestyle burnout and to get a link to a test that shows your susceptibility to a stress-induced health breakdown. 

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